What Managers Can Do to Create a High Performance/High Self-Esteem Organization

By Nathaniel Branden, Ph.D

  1. Work on your own self-esteem: commit yourself to raising the level of consciousness, responsibility, and integrity you bring to your work and your dealings with people-staff, subordinates, associates, higher-ups, customers, and suppliers.
  2. When you talk with your people, be present to the experience: make eye contact, listen actively, offer appropriate feedback, give the speaker the experience of being heard.
  3. Be empathic: let the speaker know that you understand his or her feelings as well as statements, which is a way of giving the speaker an experience of visibility.
  4. Regardless of whom you are speaking to, maintain a tone of respect: do not permit yourself a tone of condescending, superior, sarcastic, or blaming tone.
  5. Keep encounters regarding work task-centered, not ego-centered: never permit a dispute to deteriorate into a conflict of personalities; the focus needs to be on reality-"What is the situation?" "What does the work require?" "What needs to be done?"
  6. Give your people opportunities to practice self-responsibility: give them space to take the initiative, volunteer ideas, attempt new tasks, expand their range.
  7. Speak to your people's understanding: give the reasons for rules and guidelines (whey they are not self-evident), explain why you cannot accommodate certain requests; don't merely hand down orders from on high.
  8. If you make a mistake in your dealings with someone, are unfair or short-tempered, admit it and apologize: do not imagine (like some autocratic parents) that it would demean your dignity or position to admit taking an action you regret.
  9. Invite your people to give you feedback on the kind of boss you are: I agree with someone who once said that "you are the kind of manager your people say you are," so check it out and let your people see that you are open to learning and self-correction, and set an example of nondefensiveness.
  10. Let your people see that it's safe to make a mistake or say "I don't know, but I will find out": to evoke fear of error or ignorance is to invite deception, inhibition, and an end to creativity.
  11. Let your people see that it's safe to disagree with you: convey respect for differences of opinion and do not punish dissent.
  12. Describe undesirable behavior without blaming: let someone know if his or her behavior is unacceptable, point out its consequences, communicate what kind of behavior you want instead, and omit character assassination.
  13. Let your people see that you talk honestly about your feelings: if you are hurt or angry or offended, say so with honesty and dignity (and give everyone a lesson in the strength of self-acceptance).
  14. If someone does superior work or makes an excellent decision, invite him or her to explore how and why it happened: do not limit yourself simply to praise; by asking appropriate questions, help raise the person's consciousness about what made the achievement possible and thereby increase the likelihood that others like it will occur in the future.
  15. If someone does unacceptable work or makes a bad decision, practice the same principle as above: do not limit yourself to corrective feedback; invite an exploration of what made the error possible, thus raising the level of consciousness and minimizing the likelihood of a repetition.
  16. Give clear and unequivocal performance standards: let people understand your nonnegotiable expectations regarding the quality of work.
  17. Praise in public and correct in private: acknowledge achievements in the hearing of as many people as possible while letting a person absorb corrections in the safety of privacy.
  18. Let your praise by realistic: like parents who make compliments meaningless by praising extravagantly for trivia, you can make your positive acknowledgments devoid of force if they are overblown and not calibrated to the reality of what has been accomplished.
  19. When the behavior of someone creates a problem, ask him or her to propose a solution: whenever possible, avoid handing down solutions but give the problem to the responsible party, thereby encouraging self-responsibility, self-assertiveness, and intensified awareness.
  20. Convey in every way possible that you are not interested in blaming, you are interested in solutions, and exemplify this policy personally: when we look for solutions, we grow in self-esteem; when we blame (or alibi), we weaken self-esteem.
  21. Give your people the resources, information, and authority to do what you have asked them to do: remember that there can be no responsibility without power, and nothing so undermines morale as assigning the first without giving the second.
  22. Remember that a great manager or leader is not one who comes up with brilliant solutions, but who sees to it that his people come up with brilliant solutions: a manager, at his or her best, is a coach, not a problem solver for admiring children.
  23. Take personal responsibility for creating a culture of self-esteem: no matter what "self-esteem training" they might be given, subordinates are unlikely to sustain the kind of behavior I am recommending if they do not see it exemplified by the higher-ups.
  24. Work at changing aspects of the organization's culture that undermine self-esteem: traditional procedures, originating in an older model of management, may stifle not only self-esteem but also any creativity or innovation (such as requiring that all significant decisions be passed up a chain of command, thus leaving those close to the action disempowered and paralyzed).
  25. Avoid overdirecting, overobserving, and overreporting: excessive "managing" ("micromanaging") is the enemy of autonomy and creativity.
  26. Plan and budget appropriately for innovation: do not ask for people's innovative best and then announce there is no money (or other resources), because the danger is that creative enthusiasm will dry up and be replaced by demoralization.
  27. Find out what the central interests of your people are and, whenever possible, match tasks and objectives with individual dispositions: give people an opportunity to do what they enjoy most and do best; build on people's strengths.
  28. Ask your people what they would need in order to feel more in control of their work and, if possible, give it to them: if you want to promote autonomy, excitement, and a strong commitment to goals, empower, empower, empower.
  29. Reward such natural expressions of self-esteem as self-assertiveness, (intelligent) risk taking, flexible behavior patterns, and a strong action orientation: too many companies pay lip service to such values while rewarding those who conform, don't ask difficult questions, don't challenge the status quo, and remain essentially passive while performing the emotions of their job description.
  30. Give assignments that stimulate personal and professional growth: without an experience of growth, self-esteem-and enthusiasm for the job-tends to be undermined.
  31. Stretch your people: assign tasks and projects slightly beyond their known capabilities.
  32. Educate your people to see problems as challenges and opportunities; this is one perspective clearly shared by high achievers and by people of high self-esteem.
  33. Support the talented non-team player: in spite of everything we can say about the necessity for effective teamwork, there needs to be a place for the brilliant hermit who is moving to different music, and even team players benefit from seeing this respect for individuality.
  34. Teach that errors and mistakes are opportunities for learning " What can you learn from what happened?" is a question that promotes self-esteem; it also promotes not repeating mistakes; and sometimes it points the way to a future solution.
  35. Challenge the seniority tradition and promote from any level on the basis of merit: recognition of ability is one of the great inspirers of self-respect.
  36. Reward generously for outstanding contributions, such as new products, inventions, services, and money-saving projects: profit sharing programs, deferred compensation plans, cash or stock bonuses, and royalties can all be used to reinforce the signal that your organization wants innovation and respects intelligent self-assertion and self-expression.
  37. Write letters of commendation and appreciation to high achievers and ask the CEO to do likewise: when people see that their company values their mind, they are motivated to keep pushing at the limits of what they feel capable of achieving.
  38. Set a standard of personal integrity: keep your promises, honor your commitments, deal with everyone fairly (not just insiders, but suppliers and customers as well), and acknowledge and support this behavior in others; give your people the pride of working for a moral company.
Nathaniel Branden
The Branden Institute
P.O. 2609, Beverly Hills, California 90213
Phone: (310) 274-6361 Fax: (310) 271-6808
Email: NathanielBranden@Compuserve.com